Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Pink Cupcakes


From the moment we told Grace we were going to have a baby, she was adamant that it was going to be a girl. The mere mention of the possibility of a boy baby brought immediate angry outbursts and expressions of disgust.

At first, we found this fairly amusing. And, no doubt, typical. Grace is a girl, mom is a girl, it only makes sense that any baby that comes out of mom should also be a girl. Heck, I felt a little that way myself. The thought of having a little boy inside of me seemed a bit weird. Like being invaded by a foreign power. :)

But...as the date to discover the gender neared, Spencer and I realized that something had to be done. Grace was coming to the ultrasound with us, and neither of us wanted to deal with the inevitable mess that would follow should that little baby have boy parts. After stewing over it for a little while, and consulting with some friends, we came up with the following solution...

See, as of late, Grace has been obsessed with two things: pink cupcakes and pink kitties. I have no idea where the pink kitties thing came from. I've never seen one. But they're a very real entity to Grace. In fact, on any given day, Grace will proclaim that the only things she likes in the whole world are pink cupcakes and pink kitties. Yeah, just try and feed THAT kid lunch...

Anyway, we decided to present the following options to Grace: if the baby is a girl, we'll go get ice cream as a family to celebrate. However, if the baby is boy (immediate grimace on her part), we'll go to a bakery and buy some...drum roll, please...PINK CUPCAKES!

It worked like a charm.

From that moment on, Grace was quick to mention that she was "okay" with the baby being a boy. When that magical ultrasound occurred, and the gender was announced, Grace was THRILLED. She's never turned back.

The power of those pink cupcakes astounds me. My child is waaaayyy too motivated by treats.

9 comments:

Sabrina said...

Awesome news. Congrats! It's not so bad being invaded by a "foreign entity." I've done it twice now. Good work on the child psychology.

Kristin said...

That's so funny and so cute. I'm so excited for you! I'm sure Grace will soon learn that little baby boys are just as sweet as little baby girls. Even when they don't come with pink cupcakes. :)

Keith Family said...

so excited for you guys!!!

Aimee said...

Yay!!! Cute story! You had me fooled at the beginning. Congratulations!I want to see you!

Tammy said...

That is the cutest little story. What a sweet girl! That was excellent parenting on your part, I might add. :)

Meghan said...

Sounds like she has her mom's sweet tooth :) I heard the books "pinkalicious" are fabulous for little girls.(is that where she got the pink cupcake obsession). So excited for baby boy bardsley to debue!

Jenny said...

Congratulations!!! AWESOME story! Love you so much!!

Kendra and Jason said...

Yey! Congratulations!!! When are you due? Give us more updates! (I'm terrible at Facebook).

Justin and Ashleigh Smith said...

Congrats on the upcoming boy!!! I'm sure Grace will become enamored with that little baby! I've actually heard about Cedar Point. I remember watching a show in high school about the top 10 roller coasters and like 2 of the top ones were at Cedar Point!