Monday, July 20, 2009

Independence Day Musings

I've loved reading all the posts about people's Independence Day adventures as of late. Though the day is now long past, I thought I would add my own. I love Independence Day. It has become my favorite holiday and I anxiously await its coming every year. I really can't think of any aspect of the 4th that doesn't appeal to me. The parades, the crowds, the fireworks, the patriotic songs, the family, the festivals, the food--I just really can't get enough of it.
It has also become an important time marker for Spencer and I. We met the last week of June and started seriously dating just in time for all the Provo Independence Day festivities. As cheesy as it seems, we fell in love amidst the craziness of fireworks and parades and because of that, this time of year will always be special to us. Though we married in December, I think we both consider the 4th of July period our true "anniversary."
Every year we were in Provo for the fourth, we were the official "parade spot keepers" for Spencer's family. Yes, we were part of the crazy crowd who would spend the night on the street to secure prime parade viewing enjoyment. I have so many good memories from that. When Spencer's family told us that they continued the tradition this year as well, and even scavenged the same spot, I felt a silly little glow of pride in my heart that Spencer and I had left our own little 4th of July legacy. :) It was hard for me to see pictures posted on blogs and facebook by friends and family of all the Provo activities without feeling a wave of nostalgia and homesickness. The Freedom Festival, the hot air balloons, the parade, the activities at Maceys, the Stadium of Fire and even the crazy crew of motorcyclers who cruise University Ave all night before the parade will always hold a place in my heart. But I digress...
I also love Independence Day because I am a covert American history buff. My dream when I first entered college was to become an American history professor. That dream got lost in my post-mission desire to save the world through social work, but still lives on in my heart. I am amazed by the founding of my country and marvel at the incredible odds the colonists overcame. Talk about the greatest underdog victory of all time--a ragtag band of primarily inexperienced military novices took on the strongest army in the world and triumphed. On paper, it just shouldn't have worked out. They fought amongst themselves, desertion rates were high and morale was usually quite low; but somehow, by the skin of their teeth, they did it. It is a direct testament of God's ability to utilize the weak and imperfect to bring about his great purposes.
And now onto the pictures! We spent the 4th of July holidays with Spencer's family--first in Nauvoo, and then in Wisconsin. It was really great to see so many of them. It was especially fun for me to watch Grace interact with her cousins. She LOVES them. While Grace is generally afraid of adults at first, she has almost none of the same reservations with children. After we got home, whenever she saw little kids, she would start flapping her arms and making excited noises--no doubt thinking they were her cousins about to come play with her. I loved it.
Well, the pictures are pretty out of order, but...here they are.



Grace at Pike Lake near Hartford, WI, on the 4th. She discovered the joys of pushing her stroller and walking with it. She did that for a good half hour or so.


April, Max, Spencer, Landon, Grace and Olivia at the Hartford parade. Not as great as the Provo Parade, but a parade nonetheless. :)

More Pike Lake.
We went to Milwaukee the night of the third for their big fireworks show. The fireworks shot out over Lake Michigan. The show was an hour long! Even for a fireworks buff, I was getting kind of restless at the end. Grace showed little to no interest in the fireworks. She found a squishy orange ball much more entertaining and spent the duration of the show chewing on it. A lot of the nieces and nephews fell asleep. Grace, however, was bright-eyed and bushy-tailed to very end, even though her regular bedtime is 7:30. She's always happy to stay up as late as possible. The next day, however, she's a cranky, whiny mess.

Grace and Calais.


Grace and Landon.


Cute Olivia.


I promise that Grace really did love her cousins, despite what this picture seems to indicate.


Grace, Sammy, and Landon: all born within a few months of each other!


It was surprisingly cold that night, hence the hoodies.


Milwaukee!


Jacob, Whitney, Landon and us on our walk to see Lake Michigan.



More Lake Michigan.



The fam waiting for the fireworks to start.


Esther and little sleeping Sammy.


Just before we went to Milwaukee, we stopped by a cute old town called Cedarburg to make a chocolate run. We kept Grace protectively in her stroller. This was also my first attempt at doing something with the little tuft of hair that Grace has on top. Little Gracie Lou Who. :)


On the 2nd, we went to a cathedral close to April's home in Hartford. We trekked up the 178 stairs to the top, with two babies in tow.



In the spires of the cathedral. Apparently, Grace found the climb quite tiring.


April and three of her kids: Adam, Benjamin and Calais.


View from the top.






The weekend before the fourth, we met up with Jacob and Whitney and April and her kids in Nauvoo. This is Grace and Landon in the...family living center, I think?


The Browning Gunsmith spiel.


Apparently, I wasn't doing a good job of keeping up with Grace's hunger. She had to turn to other sources for food.


Spencer, Sydney, and Brigham Young's well.



A genuine Nauvoo horse.



Chubby face Grace.


The whole crew.


Calais, Sydney, and the part of the muddy old Mississippi where the Pioneers crossed.

Friday, July 10, 2009

Casualties of our recent move to Cedar Rapids:

  • a glass bowl
  • a much beloved mini-mixer
  • Anna's sanity

Friday, June 12, 2009

Grace the Fish

Grace had her first adventure in a swimming pool today. I was somewhat skeptical about her enjoying the experience very much. The water was freezing cold (Spencer and I had to ease ourselves in very slowly) and Grace isn't the...bravest of babies. :) I figured she'd scream and protest at first and then gradually decide that water was okay. This is how she seems to react with all things new. However, something about being here in Illinois has turned her into a little daredevil. When we put her in, she started a bit, but then was perfectly content to float around--in water that even Spencer and I were hesitant to be in! It was really quite adorable. She was so happy! By the end, she was leaning back against the floaty relaxing and soaking in the sun. Apparently, there will be a lot of swimming in our future. :)



The complex that we live in has a pool, so that's where we were.



It was Grace's little friend Beau's first experience in a swimming pool as well, but he didn't like it as much. Grace kept trying to assure him that it was okay, but he didn't trust her.




Pre-swimming pump up.

Saturday, June 6, 2009

Nauvoo Trip


Nauvoo is such a perfect place to spend Memorial Day. For me, Nauvoo is all about remembering. Remembering to be grateful for all of the wonderful advances technology has brought us (hooray for no longer traveling across the country by covered wagon!), remembering the beauty of the earth and a simple lifestyle, and most of all, remembering the sacrifices of the early members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. What a hard thing it must have been to leave such a beautiful city and existence for a future of relative uncertainty.
As Spencer and I prepared to move and sell our home, I felt a strange connection with the early saints. Obviously, I was not leaving my home under even remotely similar circumstances. No one forced us to leave. It was a choice we made of our own accord. And their journey across those same plains and mountains that we crossed stretched on for months and months and included terrible heartache and suffering. Ours took a whopping 24 hours, most of which were spent watching a plethora of redbox movies we rented before leaving. Now, listening to Grace scream and protest for the last two hours of the trip felt like terrible suffering at the time, but obviously can't even compare to what so many of the saints went through.
But all the same, I wondered if some of the emotions I was feeling were similar to theirs. Spencer and I spent a mere 9 months in our home. A home that we (along with the help of so many friends and family members) worked so hard to get and had planned on inhabiting for quite some time. It was beautiful to us. Our first real home together and the first place that we could paint, decorate, and mold to fit who we were. We spent many a Saturday mowing, watering, weeding, pruning and raking. And this doesn't include all the time we spent sanding and refinishing the wood floors, fixing various aspects of the houses physique, and painting the walls. In the end, I had a finished kitchen floor for only about 3 days before we had to leave. And then there's the whole issue of leaving the only state Spencer and I had ever known as home with all of its mountainous splendor. And don't even get me started about having to leave all of our family.
But I digress. The point of all this is to say that I can understand now what it must have been like for them (in some small degree) to leave behind such a wonderful place after such a short time and so unexpectedly. It's not easy. What faith they had. We, at least, knew that there was a place to live and a livelihood of some persuasion waiting for us. We also knew that really, no matter how far we wandered, home would always be just a plane ride (or a very long, but wholly doable car ride) away. What assurances did they have? All they knew was that Joseph Smith, as a young boy, had seen God and his Son, Jesus Christ. And nothing else mattered. That was enough. I stand all amazed.



The house we stayed in for the weekend


The Carthage grass war with Grace's new buddy, Beau


Grace at Carthage


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